Bella POV.
Naya buat grup chat *Komite Akad Naya-Ello*—nama terdengar megah, isinya praktis: checklist dokumen, draf anggaran, timeline tahun depan. Aku dimasukkan sebagai sahabat opsional, bukan wedding planner utama.
Senin pagi, notifikasi grup lima belas pesan—Naya pin aturan: tanpa drama, tanpa spam vendor, hormati jam kerja. Ello react jempol. Puput react hati. Aku react tangan OK saja.
Pagi itu juga, aku shift posyandu singkat—dua jam, edukasi flash ke ibu-ibu sebelum zuhur. Satu ibu tanya, “Kak Bella ikut komite nikah?” Aku jawab, “Ikut support sahabat, bu, bukan urus semua.” Ibu angguk paham—komunitas Bandung memang suka tahu, tapi boundary bisa dijelaskan polos.
Pertanyaan pertama di grup: warna tema akad soft atau bold? Debat ringan. Aku komentar sekali: “Lo yang happy, kak. Gue support logistik kalau perlu.” Naya balas: “Love u buffer.”
Senin sore, setelah shift posyandu, aku scroll grup komite lima menit—vendor dekor kirim moodboard pink gold; Ello react emoji panik budget. Aku tidak react—bukan dompetku, bukan keputusanku. Close app.
Selasa, Naya telepon Bella lima belas menit—bukan curhat Noah, curhat stres ibu mertua masa depan. Aku dengar, sarankan kalimat boundary untuk tante Adis, tidak menawarkan diri jadi mediator. “Kak, gue bisa temani ke fitting hijab, bukan temani negosiasi mas kawin.” Naya tertawa lega.
Selasa malam, magister modul singkat—survey design reading. Aku baca sambil sahur prep mami. Multitask Ramadan edition.
Rabu, Puput add Bella to subgroup “undangan digital”—aku accept, mute notifications, check once daily. Digital boundary practice.
Kamis, om Saga post in grup komite PDF etiquette akad—formal. Aku read, learn, no comment. Respect elder format.
Jumat, posyandu site one—anak bawa mainan baru Lebaran preview; aku redirect attention ke sikat. Parent thank. Small win lapangan parallel komite chaos.
Rabu, fellowship meeting—dr. Lestari remind Ramadan empathy in patient talk. Aku share one story anonymized posyandu ibu puasa gigi ngilu—team listen. Mentor moment.
Kamis, grup komite share vendor catering list—Ello comment budget cap; om Saga emoji approve slow. Aku mute grup eight hours—focus proposal write. Boundary digital.
Jumat silaturahmi keluarga medium pre-Lebaran vibe early—belum Lebaran, tapi rame. om Atma mention Naya wedding next year modest—applause. Bella mention magister proposal bab metode due June—applause smaller but real. Bang Noah congratulate both formal across table.
Koridor antri pudding:
“Permisi, Drg. Bel.”
“Permisi, bang.”
Same script. Ramadan edition.
Sabtu, Kiera datang bantu Naya sort spreadsheet vendor—Bella satu jam saja, lalu shift posyandu. Di meja makan Naya, tiga laptop terbuka; Ello bawa printout budget warna-warni. Kiera bisik, “Lo beneran tidak jadi bridesmaid?” Aku jawab, “Sahabat cukup. Lo?” Kiera jawab, “Fotografer mungkin kalau mereka minta.” Persahabatan praktis.
Ello tanya Bella once, “Kak Bella ok dengan timeline akad?” Aku jawab, “Ok, yang penting Naya tidak burnout.” Ello angguk berat—engineer understand load balance.
Rabu minggu komite, vendor dekor menawarkan paket mahal di grup; om Saga react emoji thinking. Aku tidak comment—bukan urusan finansial keluarga Naya. Naya DM aku: “Thanks not adding noise.” Aku balas: “Lo yang decide dengan Ello dan om.”
Jumat, silaturahmi keluarga Tedja medium—pre-Lebaran awal. Puput tanya komite progress; Naya jawab singkat. Bang Noah duduk jauh dari meja Bella—random seating, sengaja tidak diatur. Saat antri ketupat, kita hanya exchange maaf lahir batin formal belum Lebaran—tradisi awal.
Ahad, Naya post poll dress hijab akad—tiga opsi. Aku pilih opsi dua—sederhana. Sengaja tidak sama dengan Naya—sahabat bukan clone.
Malam Ahad, Ello private thank Bella in grup kecil—text formal: support Naya mental health during committee stress. Aku reply: anytime as friend. No emoji heart.
Noah POV:
Grup komite akad—gue not in. Correct. Naya update Ello only work impact. Bel support friend—gue hear Puput mention. Respect. Gue focus Q2 audit prep. Wedding not my project. Friend yes.
Bella POV close:
Senin week two Ramadan, aku decline co-planner role explicit in grup—Naya pin respect. Committee continue without triangle ghost. Buku catatan:
*Komite: sahabat role clear. Naya-Ello stress managed. Noah not in grup.*
Papi ketuk pintu tradisi Ramadan edition:
“Drg. Bella, puasa?”
“Puasa, papi.”
“Good.”
Minggu tiga Ramadan, aku mute grup komite forty-eight hours—magister deadline dekat. Naya DM: “No hard feelings?” Aku balas: “No. Back Monday.” Friend grace.
Senin, aku balas grup dengan summary vendor catering three options neutral—no pick side. Naya thank. Ello thank. Committee moves without Bella as center gravity.
Selasa, posyandu site two—kader baru lupa script; aku coaching side stage five minutes. Not hero—coach. dr. Lestari see, later email: *Good teaching moment.*
Rabu malam, Kiera call Bella ten minutes—complain vendor ghosting Naya. Aku suggest Naya forward ke om Saga official channel, not solve alone. Kiera: “Lo really boundary queen.” Aku: “Lo juga.”
Kamis, fellowship log update—twenty hours Ramadan adjusted documented. Transparent hours.
Jumat, silaturahmi om Atma repeat smaller—komite mention once only. Bang Noah maaf lahir batin early before Lebaran week end. Bella same. Formal.
Ahad, aku bantu Naya print checklist dokumen akad—tiga puluh menit di rumahnya, printer macet, tertawa frustrasi together. Ello bawa kopi takeaway decaf—sweet. Sahabat labor, bukan wedding planner invoice.
Senin, grup komite vote undangan digital vendor—Bella abstain. Naya notice, DM thanks. Respect abstain is boundary too.
Selasa, magister class cancel one session Eid prep—cohort grateful. Aku use time sleep extra hour—revolution personal.
Rabu, posyandu both sites—Ramadan final push. Count smiles kids—unscientific metric but real.
Kamis, Ello call thank Bella for not pushing expensive vendor—saved budget fight. Aku say, “Lo jujur ke Naya, that enough.” Engineer gratitude awkward cute.
Jumat malam, tarawih singkat di masjid dekat; pulang bantu mami packing sembako untuk posyandu site two post-Lebaran. Puasa terakhir pekan terasa lembut—bukan sempurna, tapi cukup.
Ahad, aku pin di grup komite satu link checklist dokumen akad dari om Saga—tidak edit isi, hanya bantu organize. Naya react pray emoji. Dukungan sahabat versi admin ringan.
Shalat, tidur. Alarm sahur.
Aksara